Study on Core Competence of EQ for Young Cadets in Military Academy

Young cadets are an important source and new force for army construction. Our cadets need not only scientific and technological culture, military physical skills, professional skills and other qualities, but also high level of emotional intelligence. In recent years, we have set up emotional intelligence training courses for young students. We have studied and analyzed the main content of emotional intelligence core competence, and believe that the core supporting role is love and enthusiasm to military, which is a necessary basic quality and life background. What plays an important role in regulating is the ability of resistance to frustration, which is to temper oneself frequently, with high self-consciousness, persistent tenacity and rigorous self-control.It is that emotional management ability that should play an active role to achieve emotional linkage, to skillfully use expectation strategies, to cultivate good behavior habit, to cultivate awareness ability of emotional state, to use emotion language ability etc. What plays the role of lubrication and regulation is the ability of coordination and communication, that is, to treat people sincerely, to speak well, to learn to listen and to appreciate. What plays the role of understanding and communication is the ability of psychological compatibility, which means that people with different personalities can adapt to each other and achieve the effect of " Minds think alike " in transposition thinking, forming a joint force to contribute to the construction and development of the army.