"We Told You that's How They Are": Responses To White Women in Abusive Intimate Relationships with Men of Color

The urging by interracial couples to be accepted as "normal" couples may present as challenging if problems arise in the relationship; especially if those "problems" are of an abusive or violent nature. Drawing on semi-structured, in-depth interviews we analyze the experiences of White women in abusive intimate relationships with men of color. We query the struggles of the women negotiating these relationships and explore the responses the women receive by family, friends, the general public, and workers in the criminal justice system and social and medical services. We argue that White women abused by men of color face additional challenges because of outsiders' disapproving views of the interracial nature of the relationships.