We study the thermalization of smeared particle detectors that couple locally to any operator in a quantum field theory in curved spacetimes. We show that if the field state satisfies the Kubo-Martin-Schwinger condition with inverse temperature beta with respect to the detector's local notion of time evolution, reasonable assumptions ensure that the probe thermalizes to the temperature 1/beta in the limit of long interaction times. Our method also imposes bounds on the size of the system with respect to its proper acceleration and spacetime curvature in order to accurately probe the Kubo-Martin-Schwinger temperature of the field. We then apply this formalism to a uniformly accelerated detector probing the Minkowski vacuum of any CPT symmetric quantum field theory, and show that the detector thermalizes to the Unruh temperature, independently of the operator it couples to. This exemplifies yet again the robustness of the Unruh effect, even when arbitrary smeared detectors are used to probe general operators in a quantum field theory.