The non-governmental organizations (NGO) in the United States are playing an important role in the American social fields, which are of great significance for the American governments in the maintenance of the public security and the social order. Some non-governmental organizations in the United States have made outstanding contributions to the protection of the ecological environment, the social welfare and the social development. Some of the non-governmental organizations in other countries are also affected by the non-governmental organizations in the United States, and the non-governmental organizations in the United States reflect the American ideology and values. In the Sino-US relations, the non-governmental organizations in the United States can not only have the positive impact on China's non-governmental organizations, but also can result in the negative effects. Because of this, we should face up to the relation between the NGOs in the United States and the governments, and also we must face up to the two-sided effects of the relations between the non-governmental organizations in the United States and the governments on China's non-governmental organizations. The construction ideas of the western non-governmental organizations are a kind of organizations to promote the development of western countries based on the current situations of the development of the western countries, their historical traditions, and the society, the market economy, the balance of the powers, the parliamentary democracy, the electoral systems, the parties and politics, the press and the religious freedom of the western countries. At the same time, in terms of the construction ideas of the western NGOs, the western social development needs the establishment of the non-governmental organizations, so as to closely link together the western countries and the market mechanisms. Some scholars found in their studies that the association was presented as: the very personalized cultural characteristics expressed opposition to the centralization of the powers, and the development of the states is prior to the political development, and the people urgently need to accept some of the public services, but should not simply be attached to the governments. Prevent the disturbance on the governments by the masses with the religious belief, and the participation of the immigrants has the cultural backgrounds and the social norms of their countries, which can show the requirements of the freedom of their personalities of the immigrants, etc.