"It is a noble task to try to understand others, and to have them understand you (.) but it is never an easy one", says Everett (p. 327). This paper argues that a basic prerequisite for understanding others (and also for having them understand you) is to have some shared concepts on which this understanding can build. If speakers of different languages didn't share some concepts to begin with then cross-cultural understanding would not be possible even with the best of will on all sides. Everett stresses the great value of each language as a unique perspective on the world and a "repository of the riches of highly specialized cultural experiences", and I fully agree with this. But to access those riches hidden in the thousands of the world's languages we need to understand the meanings encoded in each language (both in its words and its grammar). We could not understand those meanings if we didn't have a stock of shared concepts (acknowledged even by Whorf) with which we could build conceptual bridges between other peoples' conceptual worlds and our own. Unfortunately, Everett seems unable to see this point and in his eagerness to depict the Piraha people as radically different from the rest of the humankind he goes far beyond the linguistic evidence (as presented in his own publications on the Piraha language) - as one can clearly see if this evidence is subjected to careful semantic analysis based on a coherent methodology (see my commentary on Everett's "Cultural constrains on grammar and cognition in Piraha" in Current Anthropology 46: 4, 2005). For example, Everett claims that Piraha has no word for "mother", no words for "before' and "after", no words for "one", "two" and "all" and no words comparable to 'think" and "want". These claims are based, I believe, on faulty semantic analysis, and in particular, on a determination not to recognize polysemy under any circumstances. As I see it, at many points this stance makes nonsense of Everett's own data and distorts the conceptual world of the Piraha. Since he does not want to recognize the existence of any shared concepts, Everett is also not prepared to address the question of a culture-neutral metalanguage in which Piraha and English conceptual categories could be compared. This often leads him to imposing cultural categories of English (such as "evidence", "tolerance" and "parent") on the conceptual world of the Piraha. The result is a combination of exoticism and Anglocentrism which doesn't do justice to Everett's long and intimate engagement with the Piraha people and their language. Sadly, it blinds him to what Franz Boas called "the psychic unity of mankind", reflected in the common semantic features of human languages and fully compatible with the cultural shaping of their lexicons and grammars.